Do I ever have the stories to tell….my entire weekend filled with jaw dropping experiences or events leaving my face with an extremely confused look on it.Friday February 29thI believe due to the fact that it was indeed leap year this is the evening that would start on my “Leap day weekend of shock”. Honestly not too much happened Friday, very mellow and calm. I went to the rents for about an hour and a half after work to play a little guitar hero. I then went to Arizona’s in Shak-town to meet up with my cousin for a pre-arranged evening of one of her favorite cover bands. The only reason that I was hesitant to actually partake in the event was due to my too nice of a drunk ass who had told a certain bartender that I would be out there that evening. I have no ambitions of seeing said bartender EVER again….I don’t even attend the bar that he tends at! So in my attempt to avoid hurting anyone’s feelings by verbally telling them to piss off I made plans to have my ex (Nick) join me as my “date” to this establishment. Well, the ex could not oblige, mainly because he fell asleep (what a shidiot) but fortunately for him the unwanted bartender could not make it. He called me and told me that he needed to be in Wisconsin by midnight and that he would call me. I left Arizona’s around 10ish and went and met the ex at another local bar and proceeded to bar hop from there until almost midnight. In which case I ALLOWED the ex to come crash at my pad (cuz I really just didn’t want to drive him home) AND WE ARE JUST FRIENDS (at least in my head anyways)….anywho…he made a few pathetic attempts at a kiss or two but just kept getting shot down, but all rejection aside he still did me a favor when the bartender called. He answered the phone and told him he had the wrong number….bartender did call back and I just didn’t answer. I have not heard from him since and in which case I will just assume that what my doctor says is true “No news is good news?” Saturday March 1stThis day started out by waking up to the ex…..not so much fun in my book….yes its nice to fall asleep next to someone but I love waking up alone, but he left within an hour so it was all good. So I sat around and had some b-fast and wrapped my niece’s birthday gifts. I for once bought them more than a day in advance…but didn’t wrap them just cuz I knew my son would attempt to open them! I went back and laid down for a little bit after that…don’t remember what I watched on TV though? So then I received a phone call from an old Jr. High/High school friend that has been trying to get together with me for quite some time now. Well, she informed me that she was getting together with “the girls” that evening at a local restaurant/pub. I informed her that I had my niece’s party and I would attempt to find a sitter and make my way down there if only for a couple of hours. So on to Chuck E Cheese ….and now I know why they started serving beer there.I think that was the BUSIEST I have ever seen that establishment. Anywho, all the party guests arrived either early or just on time and we waited an add’l 20 minutes for my sister & her daughter to show….buttheads, DO NOT KEEP ME WAITING FOR PIZZA. Anyways, there was this little girl running around with my niece and we could not figure out who it was for the life of us. We questioned my brother in law and he just informed us that the little girl invited my niece to hers so they did the same. So our next inquisitive question “so you know her from daycare” and his reply “Nope…that’s Dave’s daughter”. Needless to say my mother, other sister and I had a dumbfounded look on our face, like we were suppose to know “Dave”. He looked at us “Dave ****” (leaving out the last name for my own embarrassment) all three of us simultaneously “OHHHH DAVE ****!!!!” And my mother looks up at me and says “Yeah … you know Dave ****” >insert porno music here to compliment her jabbing me with her elbow< how devastating…and maybe when I actually have the time I will fill you in on the story….needless to say it involved alcohol! Rest of the party went great……And on to Saturday night:My rents were willing to watch my kids for 2 hours so that I could join the gaggle of girls meeting in town to reminisce about the olden days…in which I swear none of them truly liked me. The really odd thing…they are actually all mothers J surprised me to hear that too! One had also been divorced. So at least I wasn’t swimming those waters alone. It was rather nice to see them…..they have changed for the most part but two of them really are still the same gossipy girls that they have always been. I found out that the friend who had originally contacted me had also given the reunion committee my phone number so that I may attend our reunion in August OH BOY :S And yes there is more …..So as I am crawling into bed that evening I realize it has been AGES since I have heard from my friend … the non “date” date friend. And I am really starting to miss him. Well….2.5 hours into my sleep I get picture mail from him….he was at Coyote Ugly in Chicago….and he felt compelled to send me a picture ….how sweet….but was it ESP or something? I seriously have not heard from him via email or phone since V-day….hmmm. Anyways….about 2 hours after that I start getting text messages from my most recent ex: 1) Stevo says we are not done. And I still love you! I miss you! He says you are in my best interest. 2) I miss you and love you! Not lying! 3) Stevo says Hi! I so miss you right now! I wanna hang with you so soon! 4) Hi cutie! I really wanna see you tomorrow cuz I miss you soooo much! If you know my situation you could understand that this was EXTREMELY irritating. I am tired of his friends being the decision factor of his emotions. I really need to grow a back bone and tell this guy that he needs to make a decision based on HIS feelings not his friends. It’s great that at least one of his friends is sticking up for me but I want to be with him, not his friends!
~~I need to explain a little bit more about wanting to be with him … no need to confuse anyone here!!! I still have very deep feelings for him but as long as he lives in that house, hangs out with minors and acts like he’s 20 its not gonna work~~K I think I am done….tonight I am going to play guitar hero….and I really REALLY need it…maybe I will have a bloody mary as well J
And i need to also add that I ran into a co-worker at Chuck E Cheese…sorry in the chaos of writing this I had also told the other co-workers that i ran into you….didn’t leave you out of my blogging story … and yes that was another “HOLY CRAP” event that took place…i’m sorry 
